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Coffee Tip #1: Go for a walk
This is perhaps the best way to spice up a coffee meeting. Take your coffee to go. Of course, this is easier in warm weather climates, like San Francisco, where I just visited. But even in NYC, as long as you're bundled up in a hat and scarf, a walking meeting through a park can be the best way to get to know someone while engaging in a passive activity. My favorite walking meeting of the trip took place (as so many do) on South Park in SoMa.
Coffee Tip #2: Sit on their side of the table
This one threw me off-guard initially this week, until I realized that it was the ideal way to instill a feeling of collaborating immediately. I'd arrived first at The Wing and popped into the cafe area for a latte to catch up on emails. When my meeting date arrived, she slid over to my side of the table, suggesting that we look together on my laptop on some of the materials that I'd sent over. Like the walking meeting, this tactic proved to be a great feeling of mutual exploration and less focus on making constant eye contact with a new person.
Coffee Tip #3: Be brutally honest
On another meeting this week, I kicked off as I so regularly do: "How are you doing?" But the response stood out immediately: "Honestly, not that great." It's so rare to have a new acquaintance open up with that much honesty, and as a result, it disarmed me and really set the tone for the rest of our conversation. In the end, we both agreed we were feeling a little bit better 45 minutes later, when we each jetted off to our next meetings of the day.
Coffee Tip #4: Take them on a tour
I'm a huge fan of "the office tour." It doesn't even matter what your office looks like or how big it is -- there's always something interesting to show. And you can learn a lot about a person pretty quickly by noticing what things they point out to you in the environment they sit in every day. Sadly, tours never happens as often as I like, so it's always a treat when they do. This week, I was lucky enough to get a tour of Airbnb's HQ office in San Francisco -- complete with a peek at a couple of their famous conference rooms, modeled off of actual listings. This one felt particularly fun for me because if you ever visit me at USV, I've probably shown you another "famous" artifact from our cultural lore -- a box of Obama-O's right in our front conference room.
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